Melanie Fiona - 4am

What is this crap?

"It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed"

You know what that means?  He's not yours.  Or yours alone anyway.  Why are you still in his bed?  Go to a friend's house!

Look, I understand songs bemoaning a cheating lover, but this is freakin' dumb.

"Standing here and I'm getting heated
Pour me up a drink I swear I need it
I think I'ma about
About to hurt somebody
Swear this man is begging me to leave him
Getting sick of being so mistreated
Another night without
Without his arms around me"

If he's BEGGING you to leave him, then LEAVE!  Gah!  Why do you want his arms around you if he's hanging with dancers at 4am?  Stupid, stupid, stupid.


Why lament the death of a relationship with a cheater?  Why get pissed over a worthless dude?  I don't understand this.  Ladies, does this song reflect reality for you?